The Life After Podcast

Don’t Dis My Ability (Differently-Abled x Trans) with Dustin VanDyke (HBO’s We’re Here)

CW: Spiritual, emotional, and physical abuse toward someone who is differently-abled and mention of suicide attempt
Dustin VanDyke (featured on HBO's We're Here Season Two finale) is differently-abled and trans. Dustin was restricted from being themselves while in an abusive home, but now they are free to be who they are while inspiring others who lack representation.
 
Follow Dustin's YouTube and Facebook.
 
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Unbuckling The Bible Belt (Classic Episode Re-Release) with Jamie Lee Finch

With one more new episode left in 2021, here's a classic episode with Jamie Lee Finch and my former co-host Chuck Parson. Before the new episode, if you're able, check out the Season Two finale of We're Here on HBO. My next guest is Dustin VanDyke and was featured in that episode. You won't want to miss this!
 
Unbuckling The Bible Belt: Brady Hardin and Chuck Parson takes the show on the road to Nashville, TN to interview Jamie Lee Finch on the subjects of sexuality, the dangers of Purity Culture, and the downfalls of Patriarchy. Jamie describes how much of her journey after leaving religion involves understanding her body. She gives life-changing advice on how to become a whole person and heal from trauma.
Bonus: Listen to Jamie reading her own original poems throughout the episode.
To learn more about Jamie’s work, follow her on Twitter, @jamieleefinch or visit her website: jamieleefinch.com
 
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Focus on Our Chosen Family (Coming Out x Coparenting) with my ex-wife, Jessi McCracken

For this very special Thanksgiving episode, my ex-wife Jessi McCracken joins the show to deconstruct her high-pressure charismatic upbringing, the saga of our marriage and divorce, how Purity Culture sets unhealthy relationship expectations, coming out as queer, the life-altering power of therapy, co-parenting while deconstructing, and how chosen families become so important as we evolve into who we truly are.
 
Our 9-year-old son, Helo, stops by to say hello during the introduction and is my guest spotlighted in this episode's Special Intermission Interview!
 
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Know Better (Reason x Mental Health) with Vi La Bianca

Vi La Bianca (Skeptic Generation co-host) joins Brady to deconstruct reason's relationship with mental health, rapture anxiety, being neurodiverse, and how to set boundaries with people AND beliefs.
With Special Intermission Interview Guest, Sherman the Dog from Adventures in Odyssey.
 
Find Vi's work with Skeptic Generation at SkepticGeneration.com | Follow Vi on Twitter on @AuthorConfusion
 
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What Can Be (Queer Theology x Sci-Fi) with Taj M. Smith

Spiritual and leadership coach Taj M. Smith joins Brady to deconstruct Queer Theology, transitioning, and how his love for sci-fi shapes his outlook of the future. They also discuss the Star Trek Next Generation episode, Darmok.
 
With Special Intermission Interview Guest, "Angel" from Netflix's Midnight Mass
 
Find Taj's work here at tajmsmith.com
 
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The Wrong Kind of Woman (Outsider x Spiritual Abuse) with Julianne King

Julianne King (Poet and old friend of Brady) deconstructs her LIFE AFTER spiritual abuse with intensely manipulative church leaders. A major event occurred while in the youth group and another afterward. Also, Julianne shares her theory about how the musical Cats represents Evangelicalism.
 
Find Julianne's book of poetry, Bible Belt Revolution, on Amazon
 
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You Gotta Let It Flow (Courage x Queerness) with Jamar Rogers

Singer, Activist Jamar Rogers joins Brady to deconstruct his radiant LIFE AFTER repressing his queerness, receiving a positive HIV diagnosis, appearing on American Idol & The Voice, and learning to silence his inner critic so he could return back to himself.
Jamar shares passionate wisdom on how representing real-life experiences does more for the greater good than advertising for "God."
 
Get Jamar's single Flow wherever you purchase music | Follow Jamar:📷@jamarrogersofficial 🐦@JSuidward 👍@JamarRogersTheVoice
 
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Bonus Episode: The Importance of Storytelling (From Fireside Creators YT Channel) with Rev. Dr. Sheri Pallas and Catherine Wilcox

Sheri invited me to be on her YouTube Channel, FireSide Creators, alongside Catherine Wilcox, who has an M.A. in English Rhetoric and has researched the role of storytelling as a healing and community-building practice for individuals recovering from religious abuse and trauma.
Here's the audio from that conversation as a special bonus before next Thursday's episode!
Find Sheri's website at sheripallas.com and her YouTube channel at youtube.com/FiresideCreators.
 
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Don‘t Be a Dick (Ethics x Real Life) with Rev. Dr. Sheri Pallas

Rev. Dr. Sheri Pallas (activist, ally) joins the show to discuss "God" (and why she uses quotes), how an injustice done by a church toward her family pushed her to care deeply about religion, and her perspective on Deconstruction Culture as someone who left fundamentalism years ago ("deconstruction legacy," I'm calling it 😉).
Find Sheri's website at sheripallas.com and her YouTube channel at youtube.com/FiresideCreators.
 
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The RED Flags of Ted Dekker (Christian Celebrity x Grooming) with Emily Dukes

Content Warning: This episode includes mentions of sexually predatory behavior and the retelling of a racial, anti-fatness comment
 
Emily Dukes joins The Life After to tell how her love for Christian fiction put her on the path to be groomed (use of privileged relationships to normalize exploiting a young person's body) by novelist Ted Dekker, what she's discovered about herself, and how she's pushing back.
 
This episode begins with Brady retelling his experience of being groped by a trusted church friend during the beginning of his deconstruction.
 
 
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